Being Platonic — Is this a fable in today’s world ?

Recently I was in a heated dis­cus­sion with one of my friend who believed in pla­tonic love. Love as usual is a very com­pli­cated thing and on top of it being a philo­soph­i­cal one does not help it a lot.


A major prob­lem with Plato’s the­ory is that is his high­est love is pre­dom­i­nantly intel­lec­tual, pos­si­bly fer­vent but always a form of ratio­nal activity.

The rea­son pla­tonic friend­ship or love can be dif­fi­cult is genet­ics. Do you remem­ber from our biol­ogy class those XX and XY Chro­mo­somes. From a good por­tion of us, attrac­tion to the oppo­site sex is genet­i­cally “hard­wired” into our psy­che. There’s no way to avoid it. We find the phys­i­cal form of the oppo­site sex attrac­tive, the oppo­site sex exudes pheromones that we find attrac­tive, even some­thing as sim­ple of the tim­bre of the voice of a mem­ber of the oppo­site can trig­ger a roman­tic response in us.

Add to that the fact that noth­ing makes a roman­tic rela­tion­ship more suc­cess­ful then when the peo­ple involved are “friend first”, and it’s easy to see why pla­tonic rela­tion­ships can be dif­fi­cult to keep strictly platonic.

So let’s keep pla­tonic to the Greek era and we stick to the 21st cen­tury mantra of “KISS” sm16862P Smiley KissYellow Being Platonic   Is this a fable in today's world ?

I meant “Keep it Sweet and Sim­ple” baba .…..I tell you this gen­er­a­tion is way ahead of Pla­tonic era.

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  • Nicely described..but yes your perspective.

    Every­body wants to keep it simple..but worlds not so sim­ple nowa­days.. so its bet­ter to keep a think­ing of being pla­tonic at times.

    who cares if a greek god comes in front, all that you care is hav­ing the most lik­able by your own view.

    Bet­ter love the feel­ing of being into LOVE ..that will defi­nately keep all alive and happy.

    cheers.

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  • ashish pal wrote:

    yup why not… bet­ter love the feel­ing of LOVE rather than being in LOVE.. door se dekh kar hi enjoy karna chahiye :-)

    Def­i­nitely a bet­ter place to keep all alive and happy

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